As a woman with an unapologetically strong and assertive energy, I have often found myself in situations where my presence and demeanor have elicited mixed reactions from other women. While society has made significant strides in embracing the diversity of feminine energy, the concept of what it means to be a strong and assertive woman can still be challenging for some to fully accept and understand.
My journey as a woman with a powerful and dynamic energy has been one of both self-discovery and external navigation. From a young age, I was always unafraid to express my opinions, stand up for my beliefs, and take charge of situations. I wanted to be a follower and not a leader. This assertiveness, while seen as an admirable quality by some, has occasionally made other women uncomfortable. I've often been told that my strength can come across as intimidating or better yet, being a bitch, especially in a world where women have historically been encouraged to be nurturing and accommodating.
In my experience, the discomfort some women feel around my strong energy often stems from societal norms and expectations that prescribe certain roles and behaviors for women. There is still a pervasive belief that women should be soft-spoken, agreeable, and passive. My refusal to conform to these traditional gender norms challenges the status quo and can be unsettling for those who have internalized these expectations.
However, it's crucial to recognize that my strong energy is not an attempt to diminish or undermine the strength of other women. Not even woman but also men. In fact, I firmly believe in the power of unity and solidarity among women. I see my assertiveness as a form of empowerment, and I encourage other women to embrace their own unique qualities and energies, whether they align with traditional norms or not. We are all different, and our diversity is what makes us strong.
Throughout my life, I've learned that being a strong woman doesn't mean dominating others; it means standing up for what I believe in, speaking my truth, and striving to create a more understanding of a woman who carries masculine energy. I've encountered women who see my strength as a threat to their own authority or influence, but I have never intended to overshadow or belittle anyone else. Instead, my goal is to inspire and uplift my fellow women, encouraging them to tap into their own sources of strength. This also comes with me never beating around the bush and being a straightforward communicator. Some do not like that, and some can take it.
Navigating relationships with other women who may feel threatened by my strong energy can be a delicate balance. I often find it essential to open lines of communication, emphasizing that my assertiveness is not a challenge to their own strength but rather a complementary force. In many instances, once women get to know me better, they come to appreciate my strength.
In a world that is gradually evolving, the energy I bring as a strong woman is an asset, not a liability. Society is becoming increasingly accepting of diverse expressions of femininity and embracing women with assertive personalities. Many women are recognizing that strength takes on various forms, and there is no one-size-fits-all definition of what it means to be a powerful woman.
Moreover, my strong energy is not reserved for advocating gender equality alone. I channel it into various aspects of my life, whether it be my career, friendships, or personal pursuits. This energy allows me to set ambitious goals, chase after my dreams, and overcome obstacles with determination. It's a force that fuels my resilience and keeps me focused on my aspirations, even when the going gets tough.
Nonetheless, it is essential to acknowledge that not all women are comfortable with this level of assertiveness and strength. Some may still be on their journeys to self-empowerment, or they may have encountered situations that have caused them to be cautious. My strong energy sometimes acts as a mirror, reflecting their insecurities and highlighting areas where they may feel they fall short. In these situations, I strive to be patient and understanding, offering my support and encouragement whenever possible.
In contrast, I've also had the privilege of meeting numerous women who resonate with my strong energy and find inspiration in my unwavering determination. These connections have led to incredible collaborations, deep friendships, and collective efforts to challenge each other for growth. Together, we amplify each other's voices and create a powerful force for change.
My strong energy has also played a significant role in my career journey. I've pursued opportunities that align with my passions and values, often venturing into male-dominated fields where assertiveness is a key attribute. Throughout my career, I've been fortunate to work with many women who appreciate my assertiveness and support my leadership. However, I've also faced moments where my strong energy has been met with skepticism or resistance, as it can threaten established hierarchies and expectations.
In such situations, I've learned to be resilient and persistent, emphasizing that my strength is an asset that benefits the team and organization. It's not a matter of competing with or outshining anyone else but rather a commitment to achieving shared objectives and fostering an inclusive workplace where all voices are heard and valued.
Ultimately, being a woman with strong energy means embracing my authenticity and acknowledging the strength within myself. It means breaking free from the confinements of traditional gender roles. My assertiveness is a reminder that we, as women, can be both powerful and compassionate, confident and supportive, strong and sensitive. It is a testament to the diversity and resilience of the feminine spirit, which refuses to be limited by outdated expectations.
